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Hmmmm! wonders what goes on here behind the scenes to get so many guests interested in watching!
Ah Jumble, if it weren't that simple. I was "my fault" that Mom didn't go up for Xmas on her last one....I was healing from some surgery and had a complication....I told her to go but she wanted to be with me just in case. So she never got to see her Grandson.
Although it hasn't officially been brought up, it has been skirted around the edges a little always making me feel like a #@%@$@# for not pushing her to go up there. She never got to see him again. My brother flew down after I told him she was a lot worse than he thought, but my s-i-l was a little ill and my nephew was in the middle of the police academy and it would be about anohter 3 weeks before he could get away. She never made it that long. So taking off anything just brings up hard feelings, something I can do without. Maybe I should move to another country and then I wouldn't have to deal with this.....I really don't enjoy Xmas very much anymore!
As for visiting at other times......not so much!
That was not your fault! You told her to go, she chose not to. That was her decision and you can't keep blaming yourself for it The past is the past, and you have to let it go. If other people have hard feelings about it, that's really their problem, and you mustn't allow them to make it feel like it's yours. By spending every Christmas in a situation you don't enjoy you are being unfair and untrue to yourself. It's hard, I know that, but you really owe it to yourself to stop allowing other people to put you into a situation that makes you unhappy.
Now wait a second, he was bought and paid for.... ah I mean his shirt. Opps! His shirt....we won that on a bid....honest!
I know, and you then so generously gave it to me
(wonders if we could bid on his shorts at TSE #2)
See, I thought that was a bit of an omission on your part............ he did take his shorts off, so you could have asked for those instead of the shirt
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