I will not post on this again...I will not post on this again...I will not...
*sigh*
I will...
First of all, Rachel...I'm so sorry you're ill, all our hopes for a speedy recovery. I hope you understand...if you haven't aready left...that I never meant to insinuate you called the mods. Tame says no one called her and I'll have to take that at face value. However, the fact remains that in the nearly 2 years I've been here and the gazillion trips to the gutter this place has taken--where far worse has been said--we've never been modded before. An internal reminder to tone it down has worked and we've moved on.
Which is what should have happened yesterday.
The only difference, which I can see, between all those other times and yesterday was the one comment about not being allowed to stay on the forum if it doesn't stay PG. Perhaps it was meant in jest. The sad fact is, it wasn't taken that way. And now we have the fall out.
I too have come here to relax and discuss something I've enjoyed tremendously...the great relationship that is Sam and Jack. The point of my post yesterday was to say that the essential nature of a relationship between a man and a woman is going to include themes of an adult nature. We ought to be able to discuss these within the limits of the forum rules without feeling like we need to tread on eggshells.
I find it slightly ironic, btw, that I'm the one defending the right to gutter, all things considered.
And as with Jenn and Rachel and Leiasky, I think perhaps it's time for me to step back for a while and get some perspective as well, cuz really, coming here and leaving with my stomach in a knot is not how I like to start my days.
Hugs to you all.
*sigh*
I will...
First of all, Rachel...I'm so sorry you're ill, all our hopes for a speedy recovery. I hope you understand...if you haven't aready left...that I never meant to insinuate you called the mods. Tame says no one called her and I'll have to take that at face value. However, the fact remains that in the nearly 2 years I've been here and the gazillion trips to the gutter this place has taken--where far worse has been said--we've never been modded before. An internal reminder to tone it down has worked and we've moved on.
Which is what should have happened yesterday.
The only difference, which I can see, between all those other times and yesterday was the one comment about not being allowed to stay on the forum if it doesn't stay PG. Perhaps it was meant in jest. The sad fact is, it wasn't taken that way. And now we have the fall out.
I too have come here to relax and discuss something I've enjoyed tremendously...the great relationship that is Sam and Jack. The point of my post yesterday was to say that the essential nature of a relationship between a man and a woman is going to include themes of an adult nature. We ought to be able to discuss these within the limits of the forum rules without feeling like we need to tread on eggshells.
I find it slightly ironic, btw, that I'm the one defending the right to gutter, all things considered.
And as with Jenn and Rachel and Leiasky, I think perhaps it's time for me to step back for a while and get some perspective as well, cuz really, coming here and leaving with my stomach in a knot is not how I like to start my days.
Hugs to you all.
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