Originally posted by blueiris
We're not talking about letting him pick the china pattern or where to have the bank account. We're talking about something that had to do with *her* - not with them both. Would she let him choose her gynecologist? How to wear her hair? Personal decisions - especially when they deal with a plan that was hers to begin with - shouldn't be left to a spouse. Or, as I said, she *does* have a tendancy to be subservient to her "man" of the moment. Maybe that's normal for people of her intelligence, but it doesn't negate the fact that it does explain why she'd allow to behave the same way with her.
Jack just wouldn't make decisions for her like that, but it might be interesting to see what she'd do if he tried. <g>
JMO, of course.
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