Hi Folks
Since we all seem to be gathered around the bar and someone is kindly restraining whomever it was that suggested Kumbaya (buy the restrainer a beer please )
Can we take a moment to remember that when the discussion begins to get "Personal" ya'all have two options.
1- take it into PM and hash it out in there
2- get up from your computer and take a walk away from your keyboard.
As you can see neither of those options allow for anyone to hash out their personal dispute with each other ON the thread. While we can and do appreciate that many can do so in a decent and civil manner, its much like watching a fight/heated personal discussion break out when you are at friends party. Its hard to turn away from because its right there in the middle of the room and most of the guests are embarrassed. However no one wants to say anything for fear of having the wrath turned on them or worse be shunned by any and all who derive pleasure from rubber-necking into others personal issues. The problem here is that while most can be civil many others can not and so ........
We have a rule that personal issues and disputes are to go off thread, period. In what way is up to you. It can be PM, email, carrier pigeon, Morris code or any other form of communication that does not involve the use of a public thread also keep in mind any form of communication utilized on GW is subject to our Respect your fellow member rule
So folks, please remember to discuss and debate the OPINIONS themselves on the threads but if you have an issue with the person behind it, take that up in a private way.
Now can someone tell me why I have YET to get my drink around this place
Thanks
TameFarrar
GateWorld Moderator
Since we all seem to be gathered around the bar and someone is kindly restraining whomever it was that suggested Kumbaya (buy the restrainer a beer please )
Can we take a moment to remember that when the discussion begins to get "Personal" ya'all have two options.
1- take it into PM and hash it out in there
2- get up from your computer and take a walk away from your keyboard.
As you can see neither of those options allow for anyone to hash out their personal dispute with each other ON the thread. While we can and do appreciate that many can do so in a decent and civil manner, its much like watching a fight/heated personal discussion break out when you are at friends party. Its hard to turn away from because its right there in the middle of the room and most of the guests are embarrassed. However no one wants to say anything for fear of having the wrath turned on them or worse be shunned by any and all who derive pleasure from rubber-necking into others personal issues. The problem here is that while most can be civil many others can not and so ........
We have a rule that personal issues and disputes are to go off thread, period. In what way is up to you. It can be PM, email, carrier pigeon, Morris code or any other form of communication that does not involve the use of a public thread also keep in mind any form of communication utilized on GW is subject to our Respect your fellow member rule
So folks, please remember to discuss and debate the OPINIONS themselves on the threads but if you have an issue with the person behind it, take that up in a private way.
Now can someone tell me why I have YET to get my drink around this place
Thanks
TameFarrar
GateWorld Moderator
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