Okay, I have no idea what happened, but I wasn't getting any notifications for this thread the way I normally do. And here I thought it was just having a quiet couple of days!
I'm with you there. For me, mature and adult are two very different things. I like reading adult rated fics because, and I'm not ashamed to admit it, I like reading about the sex. I tend to write both mature and adult fics (and usually both at the same time). I define mature as dealing with subject matter that wouldn't necessarily connect with an immature reader. And, generally speaking, I consider mature subject matter to be emotionally mature rather than sexually mature. I mean, I have you seen a PG-13 movie lately? Yikes!
So mature might be how the characters deal with particular situations and the emotional impact on them. It might be violence that I don't really think is wholly inappropriate for kids, it might include coarse language...it just depends. But it can be mature without being sexually explicit. (Damn, wouldn't it be nice if these things were standardized?)
I can read or watch just about anything. Except horror - I don't understand why people enjoy being frightened. Just goes right over my head.
I prefer psychological thillers and action when it comes to movies and character studies when it comes to reading. I read (and write) erotica that's unreleated to fandom. Anne Roquelaure absolutely changed my life with the Sleeping Beauty trilogy - that was my first real introduction to the genre and it helped me feel less ashamed about the things I tended to read and write. It was nice to not be alone - especially since I started writing in the genre when I was still quite a bit too young. (Another reason I don't - necessarily - define sex as "mature". I know a lot of high-schoolers who are/were having sex and I don't think I'd define any of them as "mature".)
Helio 2 appears to be mostly mature rated fics that are rated for sex. That's fine, but I prefer a little more substance with my sex.
I try to warn for major stuff. But I have a theory on over-warning. It's not popular and it created quite a stir over at LJ when I originally posted it. At the time it was written for a specific incident, but since then has become something of a calling card for me. You can read it at my website if you're really interested.
But mostly I try to "warn" for things people might be looking specifically for. Almost like using key-words or tags.
In my opinion, slash fics should be with the same hand as het fics. I don't think slash relationships are inherently more mature than het ones. See previous comment regarding high school students.
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I prefer psychological thillers and action when it comes to movies and character studies when it comes to reading. I read (and write) erotica that's unreleated to fandom. Anne Roquelaure absolutely changed my life with the Sleeping Beauty trilogy - that was my first real introduction to the genre and it helped me feel less ashamed about the things I tended to read and write. It was nice to not be alone - especially since I started writing in the genre when I was still quite a bit too young. (Another reason I don't - necessarily - define sex as "mature". I know a lot of high-schoolers who are/were having sex and I don't think I'd define any of them as "mature".)
Originally posted by Seaboe Muffinchucker
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Originally posted by Whytewytch
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But mostly I try to "warn" for things people might be looking specifically for. Almost like using key-words or tags.
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