I'm not sure how I feel about Sheppard's alleged "kirking" as of yet. On one hand, he has been with up to three women: Teer, Mara, and Chaya, and flirted with two: nurse at the end of 38 Minutes and
in a seemingly short time. Whether he was actually intimate with any of the first three women is ambiguous as scenes were cut immediately after kissing was shown. Regardless, those first three women instigated the relationship and then left him at the end. He forced nothing with them, none were under his command, and he is not in a committed relationship. From a viewer's point of view, nothing at all seemed to come of the flirting he instigated.
But on the other hand, so, is this really bad? He didn't love them and leave them as Kirk did. Never once was it assumed that Kirk would stay with any of the women he bedded. John might have stayed with Teer or Chaya had they not gone glowy and disappeared. He even mentioned trying to visit Chaya. And this is three women in two years (more if you consider the "extra" time he spent with Teer) and we must consider that we do not have proof that he had more than "glowy" with Chaya and that he didn't kick Mara out. I think we're pretty sure about Teer.
In the very beginning of The Tower, Rodney was complaining that they went to so many primitive planets. Sheppard says, " They can't all be planets with cool technology and open-minded women." Rodney says, "Why not?" Is Rodney disrespectful to women? No, I don't think so, dumb people , yes, but not women. Rodney saved Elizabeth's life in S1. I think it is just the banter two friends have between each other. Both women and men do it regularly with no disrespect intended.
Is the show generally disrespectful of women in general? No, I don't think so. There are many positve women role models on the show such as Weir and Teyla. Is being with up to three women in two whole years, especially when the women instigated the relationships "kirking?" If it is, than our planet is inundated with kirks of both the male and female gender.
I think the short answer is ratings. I'm sure many of you consider this to be a cop out answer, but sex sells. And I don't think most of us want Team Atlantis to forgo having any relationships, but I do think that maybe the relationships could be handled better so they both pay the bills and leave the characters with their dignities intact.
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But on the other hand, so, is this really bad? He didn't love them and leave them as Kirk did. Never once was it assumed that Kirk would stay with any of the women he bedded. John might have stayed with Teer or Chaya had they not gone glowy and disappeared. He even mentioned trying to visit Chaya. And this is three women in two years (more if you consider the "extra" time he spent with Teer) and we must consider that we do not have proof that he had more than "glowy" with Chaya and that he didn't kick Mara out. I think we're pretty sure about Teer.
In the very beginning of The Tower, Rodney was complaining that they went to so many primitive planets. Sheppard says, " They can't all be planets with cool technology and open-minded women." Rodney says, "Why not?" Is Rodney disrespectful to women? No, I don't think so, dumb people , yes, but not women. Rodney saved Elizabeth's life in S1. I think it is just the banter two friends have between each other. Both women and men do it regularly with no disrespect intended.
Is the show generally disrespectful of women in general? No, I don't think so. There are many positve women role models on the show such as Weir and Teyla. Is being with up to three women in two whole years, especially when the women instigated the relationships "kirking?" If it is, than our planet is inundated with kirks of both the male and female gender.
I think the short answer is ratings. I'm sure many of you consider this to be a cop out answer, but sex sells. And I don't think most of us want Team Atlantis to forgo having any relationships, but I do think that maybe the relationships could be handled better so they both pay the bills and leave the characters with their dignities intact.
IMHO
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