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Originally posted by Ian-S View Postmad_gater understands my peeve, it should be for the parents to decide where to get treatment, not a Judge.
I guess, it requires you to have been or to be in a similar situation to understand this but sometimes people don't want to make a choice because it hurts to let go or to loose that which they hold dear. I can relate to this in a different kind of situation where my father is a stubborn ass who thinks he's quite capable of taking care of my mother (advanced stage of Parkinson's and onset dementia -- I am still coming to terms with the idea that this person who is my mother isn't the same person she was 5 years ago -- and it's damn hard). He can't and we want him -- need him to see that it would be better to set her up in a day care, or even a retirement home.
It's perhaps not a life and death situation in the true meaning of the words, but it's a very similar situation where one person refuses to see the cold hard reality of a situation that's unfortunately not going to get better (only worse).
Originally posted by Ian-S View PostSomething that seems to be being overlooked is they have raised the cash needed to cover transport and treatment costs themselves, unfortunately they cannot simply do a bunk with the lad like the Kings' did because the doctors have told them if they disconnect him from the machine he will die, AFAIK nobody has tested this though.
And we're not privilege to patient-related information so the public doesn't know the whole story and might never know the whole story (not as long as the boy's alive).
Unless you have a medical degree I don't know of, you and I can only speculate about the true nature of Charlie's condition, but if a disconnect from the machine would kill him, then I'm fairly certain keeping him on it would at least give him a chance to survive a little longer.Heightmeyer's Lemming -- still the coolest Lemming of the forum
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Originally posted by Falcon Horus View PostAnd sometimes it takes a Judge to make the right decisions.
I guess, it requires you to have been or to be in a similar situation to understand this but sometimes people don't want to make a choice because it hurts to let go or to loose that which they hold dear. I can relate to this in a different kind of situation where my father is a stubborn ass who thinks he's quite capable of taking care of my mother (advanced stage of Parkinson's and onset dementia -- I am still coming to terms with the idea that this person who is my mother isn't the same person she was 5 years ago -- and it's damn hard). He can't and we want him -- need him to see that it would be better to set her up in a day care, or even a retirement home.
It's perhaps not a life and death situation in the true meaning of the words, but it's a very similar situation where one person refuses to see the cold hard reality of a situation that's unfortunately not going to get better (only worse).
They do know. They test this on a regular basis -- oxygen-levels are checked daily.
And we're not privilege to patient-related information so the public doesn't know the whole story and might never know the whole story (not as long as the boy's alive).
Unless you have a medical degree I don't know of, you and I can only speculate about the true nature of Charlie's condition, but if a disconnect from the machine would kill him, then I'm fairly certain keeping him on it would at least give him a chance to survive a little longer.
My sympathies to your situation too, as I said I do have a slightly bias view on Doctors and their 'opinions' so my view is clouded, the Guard case continues though...
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And it's still going -- kid's still alive. They can have him undergo the treatment, though from how I read it he's going to be labrat. He cannot go off life support, and his brain scan was a "sad read" -- poor choice of words but probably right on the mark.
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Anyhoodle, I can revive an old pet peeve. Fans calling other fans out for not being interested in everything where they slab a Stargate sticker on.
Am reminded of an old manip I once did:
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Originally posted by jelgate View PostThat means you are not a true fan
I'm an anti-member ... and promply remembers the theme song:
Anti's rock!
Anti's rule!
Anyone else can eat my sock!
Also, I'm a Shrill and Ill-Informed Lemming, remember.Heightmeyer's Lemming -- still the coolest Lemming of the forum
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Originally posted by garhkal View PostGot another pet peeve.
Back in the 90s, i donated a lot of Plasma.. But after my 2 tours of duty in the UK< all cause of Foot'n'mouth and Mad cow, i can no longer Donate either blood OR plasma...
GRRRRHeightmeyer's Lemming -- still the coolest Lemming of the forum
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Originally posted by garhkal View PostGot another pet peeve.
Back in the 90s, i donated a lot of Plasma.. But after my 2 tours of duty in the UK< all cause of Foot'n'mouth and Mad cow, i can no longer Donate either blood OR plasma...
GRRRROriginally posted by Falcon Horus View PostThat's called being cautious -- who knows what you carry around after those years.
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Originally posted by Annoyed View PostI'm the same way, but for a different reason. Since the 80's or so, I've been a regular donor to the Red Cross. As a result, it's becoming more and more difficult for Phlebotomists to find workable veins when I need blood drawn for medical testing. They tell me the veins wear out or get scar tissue or something and my PCP suggested I cease the donations.
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