But I can't stay angry at him for long.Spoiler:
The thing with Slash is, it doesn't have that much potential for getting "militant" because most Slashers know it's never gonna happen on screen (which could be a topic of discussion as to why that is and how long it's going to stay that way, hee). So we just have good fun with it, write some nice fanfic and look for the little squeeworthy moments in the episodes.
Ship is fun too. I'm a Sam/Jack shipper (yes, still - although pretty desperate by now) and I ship for Weir/Sheppard/McKay and all the wackiness that comes as a result of that.
(Edited because some of you haven't seen Sanctuary yet)