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    Major Lord Zedd's Avatar
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    Heartbroken Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    My girlfriend just broke up with me and her explaination is that she doens't love me anymore. Just like that. NOw I am stuck her with a pain that is killing me deep inside. It is like a dagger in your gut. Help me with this pain that is killing me. I don't know how to handle this pain. please !!!
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    Lieutenant General Pharaoh Atem's Avatar
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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Quote Originally Posted by RodneyMckay
    Step one: Plot Revenge
    Step two: Engage Revenge
    Step three: laugh at her and throw scissors at her
    ummm no just move on

    i recently found out that my past two girlfriends onlly went out with me just to get back at each other

    there where both freinds and i dated then about a year part

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Dude I was kidding.
    Being 13, I have a great expeirience with dating and love.
    You need to be nice, and not to get boring.
    Don't come across as to needy.
    Girls don't like that

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    I know nothing of gfs... I intend not to have that pleasure...

    But anyways, either (1) plot revenge, or (2) get over it... or (3) Number 1 followed by Number 2.

    Mattathias

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    Lieutenant General Pharaoh Atem's Avatar
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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Quote Originally Posted by _Anubis
    My girlfriend just broke up with me and her explaination is that she doens't love me anymore. Just like that. NOw I am stuck her with a pain that is killing me deep inside. It is like a dagger in your gut. Help me with this pain that is killing me. I don't know how to handle this pain. please !!!
    did you ask if it was soemthing you did wrong

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    here you can talk to him he help you out


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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Spoiler:
    He died in SM4, gosh.

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Sorry to hear it. I've been through bad breakups, and it's no fun.

    It's ok to feel sad and upset. Someone who was a part of your life, suddenly isn't there any more. But, in time, you have to move on. Spend time with your friends and family, take on an extra assignment at work or a side project at home, indulge yourself in a hobby. In time, perhaps you'll meet someone new - probably when you're least expecting it.
    I'd start a revolution if I could get up in the morning.

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Quote Originally Posted by _Anubis
    My girlfriend just broke up with me and her explaination is that she doens't love me anymore. Just like that. NOw I am stuck her with a pain that is killing me deep inside. It is like a dagger in your gut. Help me with this pain that is killing me. I don't know how to handle this pain. please !!!
    These two are fantastic. It will make you laugh your @$$ off. They have some really great stories in their archives that seem relevant to your situation. Having a laugh at yourself is infinitely better than brooding. Oh, and the latter may make your head explode, so keep a dictionary handy. Poetry can be geat, just don't end up like this. (note-language present in all)
    Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering-Yoda
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    Caboose: They could be worse?
    Church: Nope, no matter how bad they seem, they can't be any better, and they can't be any worse, because that's the way things f***ing are, and you better get used to it Nancy. Quit-yer-b****ing.

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    One has to wonder if she ever did love you. I don't understand how women can use that excuse and expect to get away with it. How can you just wake up one morning and not be in love with someone you used to be in love with? I've been where you are and it hurts a lot. Revenge helps, then you feel bad, then she hates you and then you get over it several months later.

    Time is the best medicine
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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    A new girlfriend is the best medicine

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Dude sorry to hear that.

    By the sound of things it seems you loved her more than she loved you, which is very common in relationships.
    These things happen all the time with no explanation, believe me been there done that.

    My advice is to accept it, deal with the lost/greif and move on. Yes, easy said then done but its pretty straight forward.
    Try not to over analyse what going through your head, give yourself time and you will get over it and move on. Hang out with people or friends that makes you laugh, happy, or feel good it does ease the pain.

    Revenge- not worth it
    New girlfriend- not until you get over the last one

    All the best

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Wow dude, I'm sorry. I love my girlfrined more than anything else in this world and I know I'd feel the same way if she did that. I've never actually been through a break up before but I supose you just need to try and get back into a normal routine without her. Hang out with your friends too and let them help you. It'll be alright in the end though. You'll find someone else.
    Please do me a huge favour and help me be with the love of my life.

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Apperantly it is her. She doesn't say why she doesn't love me anymore. In the beginning when you have these butterflies in your tumy, those are gone she said !
    Lord Zedd

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    Default Re: Love hurts like the fires of Netu

    Yeah. That happens when you get to know each other really well. I don't get butterflies anymore. Just a warm fuzzy feeling. To be fair on her though if she felt like she didn't love you anymore then it was best to get out. At the same time, it sounds like she's making excuses.
    Please do me a huge favour and help me be with the love of my life.

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