Ok guys, before we start a rush of 'i'm not welcome, i'm leaving'....in s6, jonas was called Jon-ass. Did i like it? no. Did i use it? no. Can i mod for it? No.
do i like it when i see sam refereed to by a derogatory term? no. Can i stop it? no. will i do it? no.
all i can control is myself (even as a mod i can only 'control' people to the guidelines of our rules.)
If someone is using a term you don't like, don't use it. I don't know who came up with TIIC - and it took me several weeks to figure out what the heck it was - but i didn't like it so i didn't use it. I however didn't ask anyone not to use it until darren spoke up and made a declaration. Now, as a mod, i enforce his rule.
is cammykins the nicest term in the world? Well, i've heard worse and i think it's on par with cambo and stems from the 'hewo' idea that folks have had.
would i go into the cam thread and use it???? not unless i saw some of the regulars there using it. Is it moderateable? No. It is a way to express a lack of respect for the character that's really no different from folks calling characters by other pet names (examples of which escape me at the moment....but i guess the weir threads would be an example. they have lots of nicks for torri that i don't understand)
We are all different here. and we all like different things. Some of us are totally positive and see the bright side with enviable optimism. Others see things through what they call a realisitic pov. we have shippers and slashers and genners.
we have folks that would love to see janet and sam together and others that will not be happy unless they get a sam/jack wedding on the ramp
we're all different
so we all just need to tolerate each other. and that includes tolerating everyone's opinions/quirks....and nicknames
do i like it when i see sam refereed to by a derogatory term? no. Can i stop it? no. will i do it? no.
all i can control is myself (even as a mod i can only 'control' people to the guidelines of our rules.)
If someone is using a term you don't like, don't use it. I don't know who came up with TIIC - and it took me several weeks to figure out what the heck it was - but i didn't like it so i didn't use it. I however didn't ask anyone not to use it until darren spoke up and made a declaration. Now, as a mod, i enforce his rule.
is cammykins the nicest term in the world? Well, i've heard worse and i think it's on par with cambo and stems from the 'hewo' idea that folks have had.
would i go into the cam thread and use it???? not unless i saw some of the regulars there using it. Is it moderateable? No. It is a way to express a lack of respect for the character that's really no different from folks calling characters by other pet names (examples of which escape me at the moment....but i guess the weir threads would be an example. they have lots of nicks for torri that i don't understand)
We are all different here. and we all like different things. Some of us are totally positive and see the bright side with enviable optimism. Others see things through what they call a realisitic pov. we have shippers and slashers and genners.
we have folks that would love to see janet and sam together and others that will not be happy unless they get a sam/jack wedding on the ramp
we're all different
so we all just need to tolerate each other. and that includes tolerating everyone's opinions/quirks....and nicknames

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