Get ready for a massive multi-quote because I'm just too lazy to organize my own thoughts.
Thanks for the review! (And the banner was by Sarai, just FYI.)
I thought I liked this episode, but it's been quite a while since I've watched it. Looking at it again I didn't like it as much as I remembered. I must have been distracted by the touching.
Well I've never had marriage counselling either; so I think I'll give them all a break. 
As far as Rya'c and Kar'yn are concerned I think a lot of their miscommunication and bickering just comes from being very young. I used to think a lot like Teal'c, and that getting married young was just asking for trouble. Now that I'm old and basically so set in my ways that it would be impossible for any sane person to marry me I have reconsidered my position. It's easier to fight when your younger, but it is also easier to make up and adjust.
Quite frankly I didn't like Teal'c much in this episode. He comes off as being very arrogant and self-righteous. He showed no respect for anyone else's point of view. For example, Rya'c was correct when he told Bra'tac that his strength as a warrior comes from fighting for wife and family and home.
And Ishta was correct to want to take out Molec. First, the Hak'tyl's primary concern were for the girls that were being sacrificed under Molec's rule. Even if another goa'uld were to take Molec's territories, the slaughter of innocent children would likely stop (we've certainly been given no indication that any other goa'uld are interested in continuing such a policy). So that is a vast improvement in the situation right there. Second, rebellion against one goa'uld would add to the ranks of free Jaffa fighting on the side of the rebellion and stand as a signal to others that a successful uprising is possible, especially against the minor goa'uld. Thus strengthening them to eventually stand against the more powerful system lords. Even if Ba'al did claim all of Molec's territories, he certainly didn't win the loyalty of all Molec's Jaffa and the military assests they control.
But what really strikes me is how hypocritical Teal'c's position is. We've been knocking off System Lords one by one for years. And it was those actions that destabilized the galitic power structure enough for the Jaffa rebellion to begin in earnst. Now he sounds just like Jacob talking to Jack at the beginning of Exodus when he said that the Tok'ra plan was to wipe out all the goa'uld once and for all only that's as far as the plan had ever gotten. Ironic really that now we are no longer allied with the Tok'ra we've taken up their strategy.
Actually, I think Jack was giving some very sound advice.
I think Daniel does an enormous amount of info dump type exposition and it shows. I really think this is one of CJ's weaker scripts.
And what's with Sam and Daniel hugging in the gateroom when they meet Kar'yn?
Actually I do find it interesting that Jack is currently beseiged by weddings he isn't too thrilled about. And I do think it is somewhat odd that Sam's impending doom upcoming nuptuals are never, ever mentioned. She certainly seems to have put more time and planning into Rya'c and Kar'yn's wedding than she ever did her own to
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Jack's not the only one doing the grabbing in that scene.
It is so cute. Makes me wonder what they would be like when faced with plans for Cassie's wedding.
Of course, you can't blame anyone, happily married or not, for staring at His Hotness. 
But I do love that line from Bra'tac: "May you love and fight like warriors" because it does describe Sam and Jack so well. And I believe Sam thought so too because that's when she looked over at Jack.
What she said!
I think when they first met the Hak'tyl Teal'c explained that the women were trained to protect their homes, but the men were the warriors who went out to fight. I do believe it was a very patriarchal society.
I agree. I don't think Jack was bothered by having a conversation with Teal'c about fatherhood. And as I said before, I think Jack had some pretty valid advice. A lot of your kids dumb ideas really will go away if you ignore them, and if not, sometimes they just have to learn for themselves.
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I thought I liked this episode, but it's been quite a while since I've watched it. Looking at it again I didn't like it as much as I remembered. I must have been distracted by the touching.

The Hak’tyl are interesting to me, too. Kar’yn makes a HUGE deal about Rya’c commenting on her beauty, insisting that his attentions in that regard are demeaning. But this meeting can’t possibly be the first time it’s come up. If she has accepted his compliments in private, what right does she have to throw them back at him in public? It would seem to me that they don’t communicate very well, in which case, Teal’c is right to be concerned for their happiness. If they were my kids, I would be, too! The argument that they have during their rehearsal is ridiculous—and I’m certain that Teal’c, watching from the shadows, felt vindicated about his opinions based on the tantrums that erupted.
That brings to bear my biggest concern about the Jaffa. This episode showcases their inept communication skills. Each of the arguments that they have is long on drama and posturing, and really short on the equal give and take of ideas. Listen again to Teal’c and Ishta’s first argument. Each and every one of their statements is phrased in such a way to deny reasonable and useful communication. Most marriage or family counselors will tell you that to argue effectively, it’s important not to use “you†statements. “You make me mad.†is nowhere near as productive to say as, “I feel angry when. . .†Ishta refuses to listen to Teal’c’s reasoning behind wanting to wait to confront Moloc—even though his vast experience with the Goa’uld should tell her that he might know something about the situation.
Every argument in the show is like that—even to the point where when Jack has to interrupt a massive fight amongst the Jaffa about going to help Ishta, it takes some serious yelling on Bra’tac’s part to quiet them, and Daniel is the only one who can iterate what’s going on. Is it any wonder that these people can’t seem to figure out freedom? They have to learn how to listen and share opinions and ideas before they can lead themselves and each other with equanimity.
That brings to bear my biggest concern about the Jaffa. This episode showcases their inept communication skills. Each of the arguments that they have is long on drama and posturing, and really short on the equal give and take of ideas. Listen again to Teal’c and Ishta’s first argument. Each and every one of their statements is phrased in such a way to deny reasonable and useful communication. Most marriage or family counselors will tell you that to argue effectively, it’s important not to use “you†statements. “You make me mad.†is nowhere near as productive to say as, “I feel angry when. . .†Ishta refuses to listen to Teal’c’s reasoning behind wanting to wait to confront Moloc—even though his vast experience with the Goa’uld should tell her that he might know something about the situation.
Every argument in the show is like that—even to the point where when Jack has to interrupt a massive fight amongst the Jaffa about going to help Ishta, it takes some serious yelling on Bra’tac’s part to quiet them, and Daniel is the only one who can iterate what’s going on. Is it any wonder that these people can’t seem to figure out freedom? They have to learn how to listen and share opinions and ideas before they can lead themselves and each other with equanimity.

As far as Rya'c and Kar'yn are concerned I think a lot of their miscommunication and bickering just comes from being very young. I used to think a lot like Teal'c, and that getting married young was just asking for trouble. Now that I'm old and basically so set in my ways that it would be impossible for any sane person to marry me I have reconsidered my position. It's easier to fight when your younger, but it is also easier to make up and adjust.
Quite frankly I didn't like Teal'c much in this episode. He comes off as being very arrogant and self-righteous. He showed no respect for anyone else's point of view. For example, Rya'c was correct when he told Bra'tac that his strength as a warrior comes from fighting for wife and family and home.
And Ishta was correct to want to take out Molec. First, the Hak'tyl's primary concern were for the girls that were being sacrificed under Molec's rule. Even if another goa'uld were to take Molec's territories, the slaughter of innocent children would likely stop (we've certainly been given no indication that any other goa'uld are interested in continuing such a policy). So that is a vast improvement in the situation right there. Second, rebellion against one goa'uld would add to the ranks of free Jaffa fighting on the side of the rebellion and stand as a signal to others that a successful uprising is possible, especially against the minor goa'uld. Thus strengthening them to eventually stand against the more powerful system lords. Even if Ba'al did claim all of Molec's territories, he certainly didn't win the loyalty of all Molec's Jaffa and the military assests they control.
But what really strikes me is how hypocritical Teal'c's position is. We've been knocking off System Lords one by one for years. And it was those actions that destabilized the galitic power structure enough for the Jaffa rebellion to begin in earnst. Now he sounds just like Jacob talking to Jack at the beginning of Exodus when he said that the Tok'ra plan was to wipe out all the goa'uld once and for all only that's as far as the plan had ever gotten. Ironic really that now we are no longer allied with the Tok'ra we've taken up their strategy.
Jack:
This is Jack’s most “Hammond-like†performance to date. He’s in the background, appropriate for an episode very much not him-centric. The most important exchange (besides the shippy bits that I’ll talk about later) concerning him in this episode is in his ping-pong game with Teal’c. Teal’c is distressed by Rya’c’s choice in this matter, and saddened that his son didn’t consult with him before making his decision. Jack suggests just sticking his fingers in his ears and humming loudly, which advice Teal’c ignores.
This is Jack’s most “Hammond-like†performance to date. He’s in the background, appropriate for an episode very much not him-centric. The most important exchange (besides the shippy bits that I’ll talk about later) concerning him in this episode is in his ping-pong game with Teal’c. Teal’c is distressed by Rya’c’s choice in this matter, and saddened that his son didn’t consult with him before making his decision. Jack suggests just sticking his fingers in his ears and humming loudly, which advice Teal’c ignores.
Daniel and Sam:
They are largely background performers here, although they do have pivotal scenes in their favor. Sam is the one who ultimately provides the means to kill Moloc, with her missiles. Daniel acts mostly as a mediator.
Christopher Judge:
He wrote the script, and did a fairly good job, I think. He understands the Jaffa, and provides some interesting looks into their culture. Notable amongst these is the fact that they ultimately admit that some pieces of tradition need to be done away with in order to progress towards freedom. (I am intrigued what one would need with a sharp knife on one’s honeymoon, however.) His brother Jeff (who plays Aron), is a formidable looking dude, but I’m not overly impressed with his acting skills. I think that Chris Judge got the talent in that regard.
I like the working title of the script best, however—he really wanted to call it, “My Big Fat Jaffa Weddingâ€.
They are largely background performers here, although they do have pivotal scenes in their favor. Sam is the one who ultimately provides the means to kill Moloc, with her missiles. Daniel acts mostly as a mediator.
Christopher Judge:
He wrote the script, and did a fairly good job, I think. He understands the Jaffa, and provides some interesting looks into their culture. Notable amongst these is the fact that they ultimately admit that some pieces of tradition need to be done away with in order to progress towards freedom. (I am intrigued what one would need with a sharp knife on one’s honeymoon, however.) His brother Jeff (who plays Aron), is a formidable looking dude, but I’m not overly impressed with his acting skills. I think that Chris Judge got the talent in that regard.
I like the working title of the script best, however—he really wanted to call it, “My Big Fat Jaffa Weddingâ€.

And what's with Sam and Daniel hugging in the gateroom when they meet Kar'yn?
Sam and Jack:
There are a few notable places of shippyness in this episode. I think it’s funny how Sam doesn’t want to be the one to tell Jack that the wedding will be held on base. It seems that she’s a little sensitive about the issue (maybe getting cold feet already?), and she flees, making an excuse about finding a planet for the Hak’tyl.
There are a few notable places of shippyness in this episode. I think it’s funny how Sam doesn’t want to be the one to tell Jack that the wedding will be held on base. It seems that she’s a little sensitive about the issue (maybe getting cold feet already?), and she flees, making an excuse about finding a planet for the Hak’tyl.

We’ve all watched and rewound and watched again the scene in the hallway where Jack grabs her arms. It’s cute and shippy and sweet. Squee! I also like when, surprised by the horse coming around the corner, he shields her with his own body. It seems unconscious to me—like he didn’t really mean to do it. It’s just his natural protective tendencies (ramped up whenever he’s around her) coming out to play.

Also, during the wedding, they’re standing next to each other, and she looks up and over at him with this sweet little smile on her face. Now, if she were thinking about
at the time, she probably wouldn’t have looked at His Hotness.


But I do love that line from Bra'tac: "May you love and fight like warriors" because it does describe Sam and Jack so well. And I believe Sam thought so too because that's when she looked over at Jack.
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I think you make a good point here, and I think it's because for the longest time Jaffa society never really allowed for the free sharing to ideas or opinions. They seem to be a very hierarchical society, both in the military as well as within their families, I remember Teal'c expecting Drey'ac to obey him without question the first time we saw her in Bloodlines.
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