So very interesting thoughts...
Sam & Jack in Into the Fire/Friendship...
For me, I can't view the episode without respect to their previous relationship so bear with me...
Up until Out of Mind, I firmly believe that the two had built a friendship based on their mutual experiences and shared sense of humour. As I believe Martin Wood comments in Out of Mind commentary, they were two people who had fallen heavily in like with each other.
Two things complicate that friendship: the first is their military ranks and working relationship which is supposed to keep their relationship bound by the frat regs and definitely within a team camaraderie/bond (I believe this is what they try and revert to post Entity but ultimately fail at as it is just too hard to put the genie back in the bottle once its escaped) rather than becoming a personal friendship.
The second is the underlying attraction they share as a man and woman. From the beginning, they've both found the other attractive, both meet the other's type (as shown in First Commandment and Cold Lazarus), not to mention its highlighted by virtue of them being engaged in TBFTGOG, and Jack very definitely appreciates Sam's naked bod in Out of Mind.
I do believe Jack is more aware that they've slipped beyond the bounds expected in terms of military protocol way before Out of Mind, even as far back as In the Line of Duty. But I think he convinces himself its not important: the team isn't wholly military and if they have a close friendship, well he has that with Daniel and Teal'c so what's the big deal. I think he's also very aware of his own attraction but ignores it.
Sam, on the other hand, spends most of S2 recovering from Jolinar and I think she puts any attraction down to a crush; and I don't believe she realises just how close they've become.
What Into the Fire demonstrates to me is that emotionally they've gotten very close, too close given their military ranks. She does go back for him regardless of her orders; he is absolutely desperate as he reaches for her after killing Hathor as though he's scared stiff Hathor has killed her. Their hug is desperate and there is a sense there for me that it is more about giving and receiving comfort than it is about heat.
So, for me, Into the Fire signals that big "uh-oh" moment where they're standing on the precipice and on one side is a retreat from their attraction and friendship into more military territory, and on the other is a headlong slide into feeling much more than they should; love.
However, while I think Jack realises the danger on his side, I think he believes Sam's actions are down to friendship only and I think Sam doesn't even recognise the danger fully, writing her own feelings off to a potential crush and their friendship and never believing he might feel the same way. So neither takes a step back and headlong slide it is.
I do fundamentally believe their love is based on the friendship that evolves between them in the early seasons, and what is so sad beyond Entity is seeing them step back even from their friendship to try and regain a military objectivity in their relationship. However, I do think by the end of S6, through S7 and into the early part of S8, they are attempting to have a friendship despite their ranks and previously declared feelings to mixed results.
Sam & Jack in Into the Fire/Friendship...
For me, I can't view the episode without respect to their previous relationship so bear with me...
Up until Out of Mind, I firmly believe that the two had built a friendship based on their mutual experiences and shared sense of humour. As I believe Martin Wood comments in Out of Mind commentary, they were two people who had fallen heavily in like with each other.
Two things complicate that friendship: the first is their military ranks and working relationship which is supposed to keep their relationship bound by the frat regs and definitely within a team camaraderie/bond (I believe this is what they try and revert to post Entity but ultimately fail at as it is just too hard to put the genie back in the bottle once its escaped) rather than becoming a personal friendship.
The second is the underlying attraction they share as a man and woman. From the beginning, they've both found the other attractive, both meet the other's type (as shown in First Commandment and Cold Lazarus), not to mention its highlighted by virtue of them being engaged in TBFTGOG, and Jack very definitely appreciates Sam's naked bod in Out of Mind.
I do believe Jack is more aware that they've slipped beyond the bounds expected in terms of military protocol way before Out of Mind, even as far back as In the Line of Duty. But I think he convinces himself its not important: the team isn't wholly military and if they have a close friendship, well he has that with Daniel and Teal'c so what's the big deal. I think he's also very aware of his own attraction but ignores it.
Sam, on the other hand, spends most of S2 recovering from Jolinar and I think she puts any attraction down to a crush; and I don't believe she realises just how close they've become.
What Into the Fire demonstrates to me is that emotionally they've gotten very close, too close given their military ranks. She does go back for him regardless of her orders; he is absolutely desperate as he reaches for her after killing Hathor as though he's scared stiff Hathor has killed her. Their hug is desperate and there is a sense there for me that it is more about giving and receiving comfort than it is about heat.
So, for me, Into the Fire signals that big "uh-oh" moment where they're standing on the precipice and on one side is a retreat from their attraction and friendship into more military territory, and on the other is a headlong slide into feeling much more than they should; love.
However, while I think Jack realises the danger on his side, I think he believes Sam's actions are down to friendship only and I think Sam doesn't even recognise the danger fully, writing her own feelings off to a potential crush and their friendship and never believing he might feel the same way. So neither takes a step back and headlong slide it is.
I do fundamentally believe their love is based on the friendship that evolves between them in the early seasons, and what is so sad beyond Entity is seeing them step back even from their friendship to try and regain a military objectivity in their relationship. However, I do think by the end of S6, through S7 and into the early part of S8, they are attempting to have a friendship despite their ranks and previously declared feelings to mixed results.
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