Originally posted by starlover
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You can just make an adult version of the chapter and a less adult one
I mean I like steam, but not direct dirty in my face stuff! (except in real life)




Originally posted by Jumble
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Can you believe that I haven't actually had the chocolate brownie???? You'd think by now I'd have worked my way through the whole dessert menu, but I haven't 
Yet

Stuart is really looking forward to the 10th February..........


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Stuart is really looking forward to the 10th February..........

Originally posted by starlover
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Ok...weirdest short vent ever...and because you probably are going to roll your eyes at it in spoilers
I love my parents. I really do and I appreciate the fact that they're helping me out atm, but it came atm to the point of me feeling a LOT of guilt!
I thought/hoped that I would get my first paycheck today. Last Thursday I found out I wouldn't get paid till the 15th...this meant I wouldn't be able to pay my bills. I told this to my parents and said it was a small bill but I was trying to work something out with work for a reimbursement I would still get from last December.
Now my dad mailed me that he put "some" money on my account. I was grateful and glad that I would at least be able to pay my bills before Wednesday. Now I saw he put a little bit more than "some"(IMHO) on it. More than I needed for now that is....and that just makes me feel guilty. He also gave me a LOT of money during the dec/jan months for getting stuff for my apartment/christmas presents etc.
I'm like, I want to stand on my own...and not feel guilty about all the money I get from them.
I know it sounds stupid, but I don't want to still be dependent from them while I have a full time(intern
) job...
Anyway...I did do groceries now for the first time since I moved here! 
Spoiler:
I love my parents. I really do and I appreciate the fact that they're helping me out atm, but it came atm to the point of me feeling a LOT of guilt!
I thought/hoped that I would get my first paycheck today. Last Thursday I found out I wouldn't get paid till the 15th...this meant I wouldn't be able to pay my bills. I told this to my parents and said it was a small bill but I was trying to work something out with work for a reimbursement I would still get from last December.
Now my dad mailed me that he put "some" money on my account. I was grateful and glad that I would at least be able to pay my bills before Wednesday. Now I saw he put a little bit more than "some"(IMHO) on it. More than I needed for now that is....and that just makes me feel guilty. He also gave me a LOT of money during the dec/jan months for getting stuff for my apartment/christmas presents etc.
I'm like, I want to stand on my own...and not feel guilty about all the money I get from them.
I know it sounds stupid, but I don't want to still be dependent from them while I have a full time(intern



Originally posted by llp
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Parents will do that all their lives...it helps to make them feel that you still need them no matter what. My mom always picked up the check when we went out to eat til the day she died (and she was 84 and I was
well old enough to be able to afford to pay myself). On special occasions like her birthday, I would pick up the tab for the day, other than that...never. I learned a long long long time ago, it was important to her, so I just quit arguing and just said Thank you! But I also knew that if she ever needed anything, I could help her.


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