John Sheppard Whump

[obsessed1]

Go ahead o1 though I have to confess it's the kind of thing I'd do, I'm the sort of person who ignores things like that and hopes that they will somehow magically work themselves out.

I'm just really disappointed in him. All of the decisions we made, all the hurry and the worry over the past few months have revolved around getting this darned apartment to live in because of his course and now i found out he hasnt go it all sorted and we're both going to be living in a place, with no jobs, no money.

He's being so defeatest, wont ask his parents for help, everyhting has to be done tomorrow...it just really annoys me.

I cant help but think how my decisions have all revolved around this university place and how imight have made different choices if he werent going there. I'm in no financial position really to have a flat, my mums a guarantor (Which i feel incredibly guilty about) and its all just a bit poo right now.

I love him to bits but i have to admit, i've lost a little bit of respect for him, something i'll have to work out on my own i guess.
ARGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

feels good to vent

[pilgrim soul]

Go ahead and vent, it all sounds rather scary, I can totally understand why you are so angry. This is a life changing event and he should realise it's not just his life it effects.

Sounds like he really doesn't want to do his post-graduate course at all.

EDIT: I'm trying to be supportive here, if I've said something I shouldn't have forgive me.

[obsessed1]

Go ahead and vent, it all sounds rather scary, I can totally understand why you are so angry. This is a life changing event and he should realise it's not just his life it effects.

Sounds like he really doesn't want to do his post-graduate course at all.

EDIT: I'm trying to be supportive here, if I've said something I shouldn't have forgive me.

The thing is, is that i know that he really does, and thats what makes it even worse.

He's just so useless sometimes......and you're right. It's a life changing event, i mean, i want to marry this guy, have kids with him, its that serious. He's 25 going on five sometimes.

He needs to get his butt in gear.

Oh well, what will be will be huh?

I just have a problem with feeling directionless and I worry that this worry will make me even more depressed.....or worse, ill because of it.

I'll have to have words with him

Thanks for listening.....i'll try and cheer up a little.

[obsessed1]

Go ahead and vent, it all sounds rather scary, I can totally understand why you are so angry. This is a life changing event and he should realise it's not just his life it effects.

Sounds like he really doesn't want to do his post-graduate course at all.

EDIT: I'm trying to be supportive here, if I've said something I shouldn't have forgive me.

No josie, you've said everything right...which you are. It is life changing, it is important..and yeah i'm angry.

Thank you for listening

[obsessed1]

Gone quiet in here.....did i scare everyone away with my moaning?

Oh well, i'm going to go lie down, try to calm down,

might see you guys later,

[pilgrim soul]

Oh no you didn't scare me away I've been trying to order some birthday presents on Play and it's taken three attempts, it kept adding the total up wrong, in the end I had to delete all my cookies and start from the beginning. Grrr!

[prion]

Gone quiet in here.....did i scare everyone away with my moaning?

Oh well, i'm going to go lie down, try to calm down,

might see you guys later,

Me thinks a lot has to do with the time zones. I come on and everybody's signing off for the night and I'm like, but it's lunch time!!

[Gate Geek]

Wow, it must be crappy day. Sorry to make the thread go sour guys.

O1 - ((HUGS)); Josie ((HUGS)) Ah heck, All whumpers ((HUGS))

Got a cold Mountain Dew a frozen snickers bar and now TR is cueing up as I type. SQUEE!!!

[pilgrim soul]

Yeah timezones can be a pain, I mean it's teatime here but lunch time on the East coast of America and early morning on the West coast, then you've got poor Lauriel who's completely out of sync with all of us.

[Alipeeps]

It always goes kinda quiet this time of day.. just as I'm finishing up work and getting ready to head home...

[Gate Geek]

Yeah timezones can be a pain, I mean it's teatime here but lunch time on the East coast of America and early morning on the West coast, then you've got poor Lauriel who's completely out of sync with all of us.

Maybe we're all just completely out of sync with Lauriel!

Very nice pixs Josie. Thanx!!

[Gate Geek]

It always goes kinda quiet this time of day.. just as I'm finishing up work and getting ready to head home...

Well then you shouldn't have any worries about missing anything big during your commute home.

[Linzi]

Poor O1. What a bummer. You have every right to be angry - I'd be furious in your place. Hugs to you!

[Linzi]

Well folks, I'm gonna go for awhile. I am so angry right now and need to really go blow my top and then some for awhile. When I'm rational I'll come back.

Have a good one! Enjoy the whump.

Poor GG! Hugs to you too !!!!!!!

[Gate Geek]

Poor GG! Hugs to you too !!!!!!!

Thanks hon! I appreciate it!!