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    Default 101 things to talk to a girl about

    I need conversation starters people. Other than the weather can the wimmen here place suggest some conversation topics they like to discuss with guys on a date?

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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    if conversation doesnt come easily then maybe you shouldn't be dating?

    Edit: I meant with the current girl, sorry if I offended you
    Last edited by iLemon; May 24th, 2006 at 06:19 AM.


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    I think that's why he's asking so he can become good.

    You can't keep him back and deny him the right to happiness.
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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    1. What was your best job?
    2. What were your worst jobs?
    3. Tell me all the places you worked
    4. Tell me about your best friend
    5. Tell me about your family
    6. Tell me about your relatives
    7. What was your first car?
    8. Favorite movie star?
    9. Favorite entertainer?
    10. Favorite song?
    11. What were your life changing moments?
    12. First girlfriend/boyfriend?
    13. First kiss?
    14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?
    15. Have you ever been arrested?
    16. Political affiliation?
    17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t?
    18. Have you used drugs?
    19. Do you like to shop?
    20. Best way to relax?
    21. Favorite thing to do alone?
    22. Ever had a one night stand?
    23. Do you save money?
    24. What hobbies to you spend money on?
    25. If you found a $100 what would you do?
    26. Do you want children/more children?
    27. Are you a good parent?
    28. What makes a good parent?
    29. Are you romantic?
    30. Ever loose a pet?
    31. Dog or cat?
    32. Pets growing up?
    33. Sleep in the nude?
    34. Favorite midnight snack?
    35. Do you exercise?
    36. Did you ever see your parents making love?
    37. Peanut butter and what?
    38. What is one food you will never give up?
    39. What is a food you can live without?
    40. Favorite drink?
    41. Perfect day?
    42. How many cds do you own?
    43. How many dvds to you own?
    44. Favorite thing to spend money on?
    45. What is the weirdest thing about you?
    46. What is on your bedside table?
    47. Are you cheap or thrifty?
    48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time?
    49. Grades in high school?
    50. Favorite teacher?
    51. Relatives in jail?
    52. Toppings on pizza?
    53. Black or white?
    54. Glass half full or half empty?
    55. Ever been to a food shelf?
    56. Ever milked a cow?
    57. Ever tipped a cow?
    58. Bath or shower?
    59. Mountains or the beach?
    60. Plane, train or automobile?
    61. Favorite all time movie?
    62. Worse movie you have ever seen?
    63. Best concert you have been to?
    64. Beer, wine or coffee?
    65. Best vacation?
    66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do?
    67. Worse vacation?
    68. Three places you would love to visit?
    69. Worse boss?
    70. If you could do anything what would it be?
    71. Super powers you wish you had?
    72. Ever had a massage?
    73. Ideal romantic dinner?
    74. Dumbest purchase you ever made?
    75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke?
    76. Ever sold blood?
    77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price?
    78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine?
    79. Ever won the lottery?
    80. What would you do with your lottery winnings?
    81. Are you a neat freak?
    82. Can’t stand being around people who_________?
    83. Crowds or small groups?
    84. How old do you want to live to?
    85. Loose your sight or hearing?
    86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex?
    87. Pet peeves?
    88. Most annoying habit?
    89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex?
    90. Major turn offs?
    91. Tattoos?
    93. Piercings?
    94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you?
    95. Computer geek?
    96. Trekee?
    97. Play an instrument?
    98. Been in a band?
    99. Most embarrassing moment?
    100. Nude beach yes or no

    what about this?

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    Question Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by False hope
    if conversation doesnt come easily then maybe you shouldn't be dating?
    Isn't that a defeatist attitude?

    If someone isn't good at conversation, then shouldn't they endeavor to improve?

    Not everyone is a social butterfly.
    Not everyone has developed terrific conversational skills.
    And not everyone communicates in a similar manner.

    And if he doesn't date, what would you suggest as an alternative?

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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    i think what she meant was if you dont have anything to talk about he shouldnt be dating this particular girl

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    Post Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by dosed150
    i think what she meant was if you dont have anything to talk about he shouldnt be dating this particular girl
    Okay. If that's the case, then I apologize for the misunderstanding.



    Getting back to the topic...there isn't any magical set of talking points.

    Women are quite a diverse group, after all.

    I think perhaps one needs to understand oneself first.

    principia, I'll PM you some information on a personality test.

    Perhaps that will help guide you in establishing goals and even provide some insight into compatibility.

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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Talking to a girl shouldn't be any different from talking to anyone. If you already know her, then start with things you have in common (work, school, etc.). If you don't really know her at all, start with things in the room--items on the menu, art on the wall, cute kids in the room, etc. Then work out from there to things not in the room, like TV shows, events in the news, hobbies. If there is something that she knows quite a bit about and you are interested in it at least some, that is the best topic I think. That could even be a TV show, a foreign language, music, etc. I remember pointing out constellations to my now hubby. I don't think he was too interested in *them*, because he still doesnt know them, but we've been married for 17 years.

    If you are looking to further a relationship, remember that people fall in love because of how they feel about *themselves* when they are with that person. In other words, a girl should feel good about herself when she is with you, not just think *you* are great. So don't just try to impress her--pay attention to her, listen more than talk, ask her opinion on something--even something little like a birthday present you need to buy for someone or something like that.

    BTW do you have a sister? I've noticed that my son can talk to girls because he just knows girl stuff from being around his sisters. I'm way too old to know what that would be for single girls, but if you have a sister, you could ask what TV shows she's into, restaurants, shops, etc.

    That reminds me that I had this guy friend once who was trying to meet girls who wanted all my old magazines. He said he wanted to know what was "in"--macho, sensitive, preppy-looking, etc. That's a little much and I wouldn't recommend it.
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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Do magic tricks... Girls love magic tricks.
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    Talking Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by Chutzpah
    Do magic tricks... Girls love magic tricks.
    Remember...it's all about presentation.

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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by Deputy-Assistant-Second-Prime
    And if he doesn't date, what would you suggest as an alternative?
    I meant for that particular girl


    btw principia- i dont think mentioning trek is a good idea unless you know for sure the girl is a geek. if she's not a geek then dont mention it unless you've had atleast 3 dates cause you'll put her off


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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by Chutzpah
    Do magic tricks... Girls love magic tricks.
    For the love of God dont!! You'll never date again!!


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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Personally, I find magic a little freaky. And I find it hard to trust people who are into acting/performing because you never know when they are acting.

    But the real reason I am posting is to ask you to give us an sitrep at some point.
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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by Deputy-Assistant-Second-Prime
    Isn't that a defeatist attitude?

    If someone isn't good at conversation, then shouldn't they endeavor to improve?

    Not everyone is a social butterfly.
    Not everyone has developed terrific conversational skills.
    And not everyone communicates in a similar manner.

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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by Deputy-Assistant-Second-Prime
    Isn't that a defeatist attitude?

    If someone isn't good at conversation, then shouldn't they endeavor to improve?

    Not everyone is a social butterfly.
    Not everyone has developed terrific conversational skills.
    And not everyone communicates in a similar manner.

    And if he doesn't date, what would you suggest as an alternative?
    I always thought its a lot easier to date someone who you can talk easily with, cause it makes it easier to connect, etc. Although I've never dated so dont take my advice too seriously.


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    Not everyone finds it easy to talk to people at first no matter how easy it would be once you get to know them

    I'm one of these people Someone kick me to death

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    Quote Originally Posted by False hope
    I always thought its a lot easier to date someone who you can talk easily with, cause it makes it easier to connect, etc. Although I've never dated so dont take my advice too seriously.
    Yes, but sometimes it's hard to begin a conversation. It's a skill like any other.

    Starting a conversation is the hardest thing for many people.
    As you get to know someone, it should get easier.
    If it doesn't...then IMO it's pointless to continue.

    Connecting with someone is essential for any kind of real relationship, but you shouldn't let the initial awkwardness of meeting new people limit your decisions.

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    Default Re: 101 things to talk to a girl about

    Quote Originally Posted by Major Zoidberg
    Not everyone finds it easy to talk to people at first no matter how easy it would be once you get to know them

    I'm one of these people Someone kick me to death
    Why kick you to death?

    *hugs* instead

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deputy-Assistant-Second-Prime
    Yes, but sometimes it's hard to begin a conversation. It's a skill like any other.

    Starting a conversation is the hardest thing for many people.
    As you get to know someone, it should get easier.
    If it doesn't...then IMO it's pointless to continue.

    Connecting with someone is essential for any kind of real relationship, but you shouldn't let the initial awkwardness of meeting new people limit your decisions.

    ^ thats me ^ i have a real hard time talking to people

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    Make a list of conversation topics. Categorize them by interest (1-7). Take the stuff in the lower groups and then figure out what you would say about them. Revise them to be less volatile(/inflammatory/upsetting) Remember it (but for the love of humanity, don't keep the list with you on the date!) so that if it comes up during a date, you won't have to think too much about it (you're probably thinking too much on the date already) or make a foolish remark off the cuff. If it seems like a sesitive subject, then ask about it.
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